The Fog Between Us


Hello everyone!! And I am back with another motivational post! As I am in tenth grade, I am constantly thinking about what am I going to do in the near future? ( Though it is not so near!!!!) I worry about the collages that I want to get into, then about my aggregate performance in tenth. I even think of appearing for some competitive exams but then the thought of the "Stupid Stuff that the Stupid Society Says" comes up in my mind! Oh My God!! This I am seriously suffering a " Society phobia"!!! I don't know why but maybe we all suffer this phobia! At one or the other point of life, but we all have faced this phobia. May be this phobia is genetic!! Even our parents worry about this society and we also worry about the society but... there is a big "BUT" to it! I don't know why we always forget that even we are a part of this society. If we ourselves do not believe in us or if we only keep sympathizing with ourselves then what can we expect from the society!!! Come on!! One has look at it's own flaws and mistakes and convert them into her (I am a feminist!)or his strengths and power!

"Life is like photography,use your negatives to develop."
-Ziad K. Abdelnour

The previous evening, I was sitting in the dining room with my uncle and we both we're discussing the most hottest topic in a student's life," CAREER"! I was talking about my aspirations and goals and then I asked him about his son,( who is my brother and coincidentally also happens to be in tenth grade!) His reply had actually made me take a step back! He said that his son hasn't discussed his career yet! He said that he was not open to either of the parent! This is not good actually (from my perspective) as our parents are the ones who will always be there for us till the end of their lives!( I seriously wish that our parents were immortal! But this is next to impossible unless and until I broil an 'Age growth freezing potion!!) Your parents are those people in your life who get angry but never stop loving you, who point your mistakes and then give you the will power to improve them, who make you cry at times but are the first ones to wipe your tears! You will never know the struggles that our parents have done to reach the position that they are holding in this huge society but they will make sure that you never face those hardships! You never know when are your parents are upset. They always cover up their sorrows with a warm,kindling smile just to make you feel happy and comfortable but what ever the circumstances maybe they never give up!! So is it not our duty to support them for once, to share our views and opinions with them. I don't know why but now a days everything is very foggy between the kids and their parents.So now, I have made a promise to myself that I will keep everything crystal clear between me and my parents and I have started working on it!! My conversation with my uncle has awaken a daughter who knows why her parents take some decisions against her wishes.


MY MOM AND DAD!
       
So all the teens out there, I have got one piece of advice. Please go and give your parents a big,tight and warm hug because what they do for you is inexpressible!! Our  words cannot define their love and care. Keep everything crystal clear with them and treat them as your friends and then you will see a new magical bond unfold....

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